For single male engineers frustrated by Seattle's dating scene…

Level up your dating game and transform your life in just 3 weeks.

Go from isolated and uncertain to confident and connected.

Step Into a Future of Confidence and Lasting Connections

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Shalina Akins

Dating Coach. Expert in Cognitive-Behavioral Education. Leadership Mentor.

Transform your dating life and overall happiness with expert guidance.

Shalina Akins, with a Bachelor's in Biology, a Master's in Mental Health Counseling, and a Doctorate in Organizational Leadership, brings 25 years of experience in empowering individuals to reach true confidence and happiness.

With expertise in Cognitive-Behavioral education, Shalina helps single male engineers break barriers and build meaningful connections, elevating both dating experiences and life satisfaction.

I Help My Clients Ready To Get The Love You Deserve

Here’s The Plan:

Break free from unfulfilling relationships and raise their standards.
Trust their intuition instead of constantly second-guessing themselves.
Experience love that uplifts and energizes them, not one that drains them.
Build a strong, lasting connection that grows through every challenge.

Break free from unfulfilling relationships and raise their standards.
Trust their intuition instead of constantly second-guessing themselves.
Experience love that uplifts and energizes them, not one that drains them.
Build a strong, lasting connection that grows through every challenge.

Understand Yourself

Break free from those "why do I keep doing this?" moments by understanding your unique emotional patterns.

Trust Your Intuition

Learn to trust your intuition while developing the emotional intelligence that attracts and sustains deeply fulfilling relationships.

Break free from unfulfilling relationships and raise their standards.
Trust their intuition instead of constantly second-guessing themselves.
Experience love that uplifts and energizes them, not one that drains them.
Build a strong, lasting connection that grows through every challenge.

Build Lasting Love

Using the Conscious Love Framework, we'll replace those exhausting relationship cycles with genuine, sustainable connection.

Ready To Level Up Your Life?

Here’s The Plan:

Boost confidence to face any dating situation with ease.
Create meaningful connections that lead to true companionship.
Develop skills to navigate social events without anxiety.
Achieve balance in life that enhances happiness and satisfaction.

Rewire Your Mind

We’ll challenge old beliefs and help you build real confidence, so you walk into every date feeling sure of yourself.

Sharpen Your Skills

You’ll practice real conversations and social moves with me, turning awkward moments into smooth, natural connections.

Create Your Plan

Together, we’ll set clear goals and map out your dating strategy, so you stand out and find real happiness in Seattle’s dating scene.

Rewire Your Mind

We’ll challenge old beliefs and help you build real confidence, so you walk into every date feeling sure of yourself.

Sharpen Your Skills

You’ll practice real conversations and social moves with me, turning awkward moments into smooth, natural connections.

Create Your Plan

Together, we’ll set clear goals and map out your dating strategy, so you stand out and find real happiness in Seattle’s dating scene.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is dating coaching?

Dating coaching helps single male engineers overcome loneliness and frustration, improving dating skills and life's quality through Cognitive-Behavioral education.

Is this program right for me?

This program is tailored for single male engineers, aged 26-35, navigating Seattle's challenging dating scene.

How is your coaching program structured?

The program spans 3 weeks, focusing on Cognitive-Behavioral skills to transform dating experiences and overall life satisfaction.

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